Monday, June 18, 2007

Overcome

This morning as I drove to work, my mind was busily planning what I would write about this evening. I had visions of reporting all of the tasks Matt and I accomplished with cleaning and working on our bathroom renovations. Shortly after I arrived at work, all of these thoughts fled from my mind. Today was an incredibly sad day.

I am somewhat shaken at the strength of my reaction to the news that a young woman I have never met, never even HEARD of until today, has been tragically taken in a car accident. The town where I work is a very small town. Everyone knows everyone. It's somewhat different from where I came from in that way. When I came in this morning, my coworkers were discussing a sixteen-year-old girl who had been in a bad accident on Friday night. We were taking up a collection for her family, and no one knew if she would live. I was immediately saddened at the thought of someone so young hanging on to life by a thread.

As the day progressed, people could talk of little else. I learned that this young woman's family had lost her brother in an accident not so long ago. My heart aches for this family, knowing that they are experiencing profound loss for a second time. Later in the day, we learned that she has been basically declared brain-dead, her body being kept alive by machines, for only as long as it takes to locate recipients for her organs. As I admire her family's generosity, I also grieve for them, knowing that they most likely will be in a state of limbo while the search for organ recipients could take days or weeks even. Today I have shed tears for strangers, grieving with them for the loss of such a young life. And I am touched.

I am touched by the charity and support from a small community for its own. I mentioned that a collection for the family was being taken. That is something of an understatement. Not only did we adults who work at the Y contribute, but so did members who were coming in to do their daily workouts. Also, the children in the day camp gave.

I walked back into the childcare area at one point this morning to look for my boss to approve a flyer I had made. I paused at the doorway to where the children were to listen to what was going on. These children were emptying their pockets in an effort to be giving to this family. I listened to one of the group leaders talking about how Jesus instructed us to take care of one another. I listened to her, knowing that by praising the children's generosity and caring gesture, she was instilling in them a Christian virtue. I cannot express how proud I am to be working in a place where God's work is done on a daily basis. In a place where Christian values are taught to the kids that come there to learn.

I am overcome.

4 comments:

Unknown said...

I haven't heard about this yet. I don't really talk to my parents that much, and I can't find anything with google. Could you send me her name?

Anonymous said...

while i completely agree with most of what you are saying and i myself grew up in a place much like the one described by you, i can't help but wonder what the collection is for. if it is for covering medical bills then i understand. but if it is just a collection for the sake of collecting i don't. it seems that in many cases like this one everyone tries to make themselves better by contributing money. while it is indeed very much christian to help each other in times of need i don't understand why we think everything in this world can be helped by money. what happened to contributing by means of a smile, a helping hand, a basked full of homemade foods, a handwritten card, a visit to see if one can help with the daily chores that all of a sudden seem unbearable for someone who is grieving this much? it seems so much easier to open our pockets and dish out a few cents or dollars, doesn't it. i'd much rather see my children taught about the values of a hug, a smile, a helping hand and the value of a human life than have them asked to contribute money to anything.
please don't take this as an attack on anything i wrote. it's just my two cents (how ironic) to what i read.....

Dana said...

Claudia, I completely understand where you are coming from on this one. I agree that money is very easily given, and time and effort come at a higher premium. The intention of the collection was for medical and funeral expenses, because no one knew exactly how long she might remain on life support.

The main point of my talking about the children was because THE CHILDREN took the initiative to give. They were NOT asked. However, their generosity WAS praised, because acts of kindness MUST be acknowledged (in my opinion) whenever possible.

Anonymous said...

i guess i was just trying to spark thoughts on this general issue because i have seen too many times how easily people forget about the non-monetary help. i wasn't implying you were. like i said i am by no means against collections if the money can help in a meaningful way like for funeral expenses or medical bills etc.